December 15, 2005

Online or On Line?

Filed under: Uncategorized — chapterhouse @ 9:40 pm

The first time I did all my Christmas shopping online, a friend’s husband looked horrified at the very idea. Shopping online, he said, deprived me of the total holiday experience. It removed the human contact and depersonalized the whole season.

Yes, it deprived me of the joy of human contact …

Image hosted by

and let’s not forget the magic of the lines …

Image hosted by

The guy is a doctor, and I doubt very seriously that he has ever had to do the Christmas shopping for the entire family, or even for his office staff. No, I believe his wife does all that, and has done for years, plus the party planning (that’s where this conversation took place), the card-sending, the cooking, the wrapping, the decorating and everything else. His office assistant almost certainly found the gifts that he would give his wife. Why do I suspect this? Because I worked for lawyers for 25 years and I remember all those wives’ gifts I had to find. And I know that that their wives did all the shopping. I figure doctors are the same. This may all sound terribly sexist now, but remember, I’m in my mid-fifties and started working in the early 1970’s. It was the norm that men were in the professions, and it was expected that their (female) support staff would do the Christmas shopping for the wives’ gifts. And it was expected that the wives would do all the shopping. This particular doctor and his wife are old enough to be my parents, btw, so things were even more sexist in their day.

But all of this is not the reason that I prefer to shop online. Tomcat is not anything like the lawyers I used to work for. So that’s not it. And I do love to shop. Love it. So that’s not it, either. No, my problem is that I can’t stand the feeling of having a deadline when I shop. Maybe it’s all those years of working under deadlines. It’s just not fun that way. So, I’d much rather do the Christmas shopping leisurely and in my PJs late at night while I’m watching Letterman or something.

This is the magic for me:

Image hosted by

Click, click, click. The presents are selected, the giftwrap option is checked, and the package is shipped directly to the recipient so that I don’t even have to go to the post office. This may not be for everyone, but it suits me.

I’m finished with the shopping for this year. I don’t feel deprived. I feel relaxed. I’m done, and there’s lots of time left over to see all the lights, watch the Christmas movies, listen to the music, and of course, blog.

Merry Christmas, ya’ll.



  1. All is well Candace, I promise.

    Someday when I get a credit card, I will be buying online too. I like the idea of doing as little as possible when it comes to gift getting. Besides, I firmly believe that holiday shopping brings out the worst in all of us. Everyone is so rude and impatient at this time of the year. You shouldn’t have to spend all of December (and maybe November, too) looking around and worrying about buying things. Just get that part over with and enjoy the rest, right?


    Comment by Dan — December 16, 2005 @ 12:05 am | Reply

  2. Candace,

    He misses the human contact and interaction? I think he needs to SEE a doctor, preferably a pshrink.

    Online is the way to go. Amidst all the other benefits, often you can find free shipping and avoid paying the state of Texas its beloved sales tax. What a deal!

    This is supposed to be a time of love, joy, peace on earth, but as Dan said (above), “Everyone is so rude and impatient at this time of the year.”

    Yep, definitely online!


    Comment by Duke_of_Earle — December 16, 2005 @ 10:58 am | Reply

  3. And there is nobody syruply saying, “Oh, she is SO going to love this!….”

    Comment by OldHorsetailSnake — December 16, 2005 @ 11:53 am | Reply

RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URI

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

Blog at

%d bloggers like this: